WAW1978-Part 5

[Not Much Left]

Hey WAW
Wow, lots of drinking going on around these days! Everyone slow down, we're all going to become of bunch of alcoholics! Not me though, I have 2 and I'm done. Ask Nomo!

Glad you had some fun, dont really understand the concept of still trying to hurt you with the boxed up stuff thing, I am sure there are way more dynamics than we can see on these boards. GD makes a good pt though.

No advice, just know we are here for ya.

See ya
C

[waw1978]

I kind of did these things too -- prior to DBing -- so I guess that's what gives me the feeling I'm getting with your H. And btw, when I realized I had only made my sitch worse, I was very upset with myself. That's about the time that I hit rock-bottom and started seeking out resources (like DR and this site) to help me get W back. H could be in the same boat...

GD

Ironically I did think of you when he started this conversation. I remember that you sort of pushed and filed for D before you realized you were just hurting and trying to keep control. I still hope H will "get it" but I am not going to fight him on it either. He will realize what he really wants in his own time. Plus I really think that his dating & possible new R or OP may be clouding his judgement. Like some on here have said that people push for the formal S or D to "justify" their new R's...not that its needed. I think of us as pretty single and don't think either one of us dating needs to be justified. I know for me there is no guilt about having a drink or two with someone I may be interested in. Not moving into an R or anything but just getting out there again.

[waw1978]

Thanks everyone. I have hit rock bottom! Only going up from here. I am still in pretty good spirits. Just going to ride this out and see where it leads.

[Not Much Left]

WAW
Just wanted to say that you should feel good about what you have tried to accomplish for your R and yourself over the last months while we all have gotten to know you. We (men at least) were / are so eager to hear what you had to say as a WAW, I remember hanging on your every word. I am sure there are a number of the guys on the boards that would agree. Didnt think you had so much attention did you?

Anyway, hope this cheers you up and doesnt come across as stalking which I apparently am guilty of!

One man's talking is another man's stalking!

C

[Nomopo]

Anyway, hope this cheers you up and doesnt come across as stalking which I apparently am guilty of!

One man's talking is another man's stalking!

There goes poor CVA again, trying to gin up sympathy/pity/compliments.

Newsflash - mean old, controlling, Pusher CVA is . . . sensitive and needy!

I know this because I am too. And I see it in my son.

Nomo

[Not Much Left]

Right on Nomo No more boards for me today. Getting my arse kicked at home and here. Your boiling my vibe!

[Nomopo]

Is that like shackling your buzz??

[waw1978]

I will still pipe in and try to give the WAW's perspective when I can lend a hand. Its nice to know that my imput was appreciated.

Don't worry I have grown fond of this group and will keep posting.

[Not Much Left]

I suppose? Sounds good anyway. Heard it on the movie "RV" when the kid is telling Robin Williams to get out of his room while he was listening to Rap.

[Gone Dancin']

boiling my vibe!

shackling your buzz

You guys are scaring me -- seriously!