I'm glad you're doing better now Nomo. It is such a hard blow when that kind of reality sinks in. The fact that my H was no longer with me has been the hardest part of the whole thing. To my knowledge many of our years together were very happy, so his leaving has been a shock. We we best friends and we did almost everything together by choice. Not having someone to share the day-to-day with is the hardest so I know how you were feeling.

I'm not to your point of detachment yet and truly coming to terms that he is choosing another life without me - I think it is too painful to even look at.

Keep up the PMA.


Me: 37
H: 35
M: 6
T: 8
2 cats, 1 dog, 0 kids
S: 09/10/07
D started 9/21/07 (I stalled)
Piecing: 11/9/07

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