PS to Sara: unfortunatley, my estranged wife, is totally against counselling, retrouville, or basically anything that either "has counsellors" [she "doesnt believe in psycology", even though she's a teacher and all her teaching methodology is based around psychology], or "has rules for her to follow".

(I guess because having to measure her behaviour against rules, would put her in a position of "being wrong" sometimes, so much be avoided at all costs?)

Last edited by Dom R; 10/22/07 02:05 PM.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle