Anyone have any ideas? My wife has filed and wants to quit. We are currently separated and have a 3 year old child. I don't want to give up. I handed her some of the information from this website and Michele's video which if anyone is interested can be very eye opening. I love my wife but she is very angry at me which I don't understand and neither does anyone else that I talk to. How can I change her mind or help her understand that I want to work on it and fix our issues? She is a loving mother but is more interested in her work and our daughter than anything else.