are you going to do the "get in shape" thing, or not?
I still believe that, whether you go the retrouville route, or the direct talk route, it will be beneficial for you to do it before you either talk to him, or before you go on the weekend.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
