Separated and W has a BF.

[Michael Mc C]

RHW - Where can we find your early posts? I'd be interested in reading those as my wife is feeling the same way about being labelled "wife" and "mom" instead of AHM (her initials). She has stated that she feels like she has lost her identity in the marriage and family. While I know what she means, I'd like to see if your posts can help me get a better understanding of what she's going through.