Potty training, what a joy. S3 is doing that now. Still have S19 months to go; can't imagine not having diapers in my life
You're doing well. Let her get her "single-ness" out of her system. It's definitely not all that it's cracked up to be and she'll figure that out.
Obviously, I don't know you or your W, and only know what you tell us, but for some reason I get the feeling she still loves you and, if you play it cool, she'll figure that out and come around.
It truly all depends on how you play your cards right now and I think (like I keep saying) that it is all going to depend on you backing off, no texting, etc. and just letting her figure it out.
You may check out some of my early posts. She may be going through a lot of what I went through which was what led to H wanting a D. I was so very unhappy w/ myself after having the boys, well during the whole 7+ years of having the boys. I had no idea who I was anymore. Didn't like who I was. Didn't want to just be a "mom" -- still wanted to be a woman and my own person as well, but didn't know how to do that or feel that way.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
