Also, Light Your Fire has been helpful for me. I am a lot like your wife and I focus on the more emotional part of the argument so I may have not always been as rational and correct as you. If I ever conceded or apoligized it was based on emotions rather than who was right or wrong. I would rarely admit I was actualluy wrong even if I knew it later. To me it was more about thinking , "Does he even listen to my point of view?" The Light Your Fire CDs showed me that we argue in different language patterns. I am sorry for your frustration. She probably does know she is wrong at times and that you are right but do not expect her to concede that point. You know what they say, Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
