Not much happening in regards to my so called marriage. W still has om over to the family home nearly every weekend. W still trying to give me grief, but I'm not taking it. No reaction from me, plenty I'd like to say and do though.
Haven't talked to her much these last few weeks. She has started a casual job, first proper job in years. Working in sales at a national craft & fabric place. She is lucky that we built on her parents block as they are there most times to pick up the kids and look after them for her.
Asked W today what she had done in regard to splitting the assets as she has had a year since we'd discussed it and just about two years since she decided it was over and she wanted me out.
Apparently because we are tenants in common with the inlaws the refinancing, mortgage and what ever have to be done by the three parties involved together. I asked so what's the hold up. Ended up saying I would pay my part providing it was fair. Mentioned that I don't want to have to divorce you to make this happen but if I have to... I stressed that none of this was my idea but something has to be done.
Not quite the perfect DB approach I know, but I really have had enough. Its all very well to get a life but now that I've got one I'd better make the most of it. Now I've just about come to terms with what has happened and am ready and willing to file, not that I have, It really is my call isn't it?
Life's pretty good, no 21 year olds though, damn you jazz.
Finally spent some money on a web hosting package so will have my own bit of cyberspace for me and others to play with. I promise that I will post a link if I ever get anything worth linking to going.
Borrowed the family car (van) the other weekend and took the kids , my sister and her d13 up to the sunshine coast. The ignition lights came on as I was driving and didn't go off till the battery finally died as we were nearly home. Turned out that the W knew something was wrong with the car and hadn't done nothing about it. Typical, I offered her an advance on the child support if she needed it. Next time I had the car I checked the oil and it was just about dry. So it's time to not borrow the family car any more. I really don't want to be driving it when it blows up.
Nothing else much happening other than a tooth extraction last week.
