Well, he got the card and then asked me if I meant to insult him or was it a nice gesture? I told him it was a nice gesture and he said that he was not in the mindset to expect nice gestures from me. I almost cried. Instead, I just looked at hime and said "Well.....suprise!" and went to work. When I went to work today I just kissed him on the cheek instead of the mouth, even though he was turning his head toward me. I do know that he and OW are arguing at the moment about something. He probably feels that he has nowhere to go. I spent the weekend working and made sure I looked nice and was upbeat. I think he is starting to become confused. I hope I can use this time while he and OW are fighting to attract his attention as it were and maybe he will notice that I am being nice and not causing conflict.