I think that he is loving me enough to support me in this, even though he would rather not have the added expense or have to move. He poked and prodded the house while we walked thru, trying to make sure it was good. He was glad I would have a good place to do my glass work. That makes me even sadder. I know he loves me!!!! WHY DO THIS?!!!!!?
one theory:
because you are letting him, and becuase in some ways, he follows your lead.
In some ways, he sounds like he is a follower. If you say you want to get a house, he'll "help" you. and if you want to stay where you are, maybe he'll "help" you too.
gah. my mind is seriously messed up from my own situation hence the late night posting. a distraction for me
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
