Almost 3 Months Separated

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Nothing really changing W has pretty much blocked me out and is moving on with her life. She called today to tell me she wanted to do something with the kids both of us. I have them this week and she misses them I know. She also talked about taking them on a trip togther. One more thing she said was that she would like to move out of state and maybe one day we can work something out where we can move. I told her I doubt we will have money for this after a D. I feel like just telling her that after a D and other people get involved things will not be like this there will not be family time since there will not be a family any longer and I sure as hel* don't want to follow my x-wife across the country even though I would also like to move. It not like we will both be popping into each others house a couple of times a week to see our kids when other people get involved.

I just feel that she is being unrealistic and it really angers me. Should I say something and how should I say it? I don't want it to appear I am using this to get her back because I don't want her back for the wrong reasons. I think she is oblivious to how it will be after a D.

Does anyone else have a WAS that is oblivious like this or am I the one that is oblivious here?