your sitch is exactly like mine! Where is our space? How come they get to move out and have all this privacy and yet still have keys and a closet at home?
Right now H's stuff is just where it's always been. He didn't move. He just took some clothes and bought stuff he needed for the apartment. No furniture there...just a lawn chair or two from what I hear. And a futon to sleep on. So all of the pictures of his family, clothes, knick-knacks, etc. are all still in their place.
And walking around staring at it all the time gets annoying. And you're right....does it make it worse to force a full blown move-out on them? Do we even care? Bleh!
Me (36) H (42) M (12) S-8 D-5 SS-18 D Day (PA) 12/02 S 10/03 R 1/03 S again 9/07 I choose Joy.