thanks. I won't use those for the card...will do a card with some individual shots of the kids. she got some really nice ones. I'm just happy to have a picture of me and the kids. not easy to do.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
thanks, casey. I can't decide. want to give one a copy to my parents for christmas and need to figure out which I like best...I keep going back and forth.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
oh, and yes, my h is a doofus. lol. of course, he would tell you, just look at ow...now that is a stunner! (doesn't matter that I think she looks like a total skank. grumble grumble).
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
Those are great pictures! I like that you took the initiative to have the photos taken with just you and the kids. It would be hard for me to have the courage to do that. Your kids are beautiful by the way.
I was sadden to read your post about how gross you felt after being physical with H. Don’t beat yourself up over it, but try to remember how you felt the next time the opportunity presents it’s self. If he is not willing to give up OW, than you should show more restraint. He can’t respect you for it. You deserve to feel good about yourself
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair
The pics are spectacular. I think I like the second best for some reason I don't know.
About your H... I say what the hell do you have to lose? I say do some seducing!!! If that is what you have in your favor, and you enjoy it, then use what you've got. I guess you never got around to asking how he was doingand how work was going, huh? hee hee.
Oh my my my. I like this plan. I like it a lot. I think it will empower you.
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
Number Two, but I love the twins smile in Number One, so hard to decide as both are pretty stunning. Love the background. Wish I could really see the East Coast during Fall sometime in my lifetime. Morgan, yes you should date. Even if it just a platonic dinner and a movie. No strings. Just get out there. If you need another F Buddy, do it and level the playing field. I am so sorry that I am advocating betraying your vows and I may or may not take my own advice but I think I have seen this a dozen times and it seems to be the thing that really gets the divorce busted. Am I crazy? Is that wrong and selfish? I just feel that H is taking you for granted and I know there is no magic bullet but he seems already a bit jealous so why not just show him that there is a sea full of eligible men that can make him replaceable and you are irreplaceable. I love that Beyonce song. Do what Beyonce does and have another man there in a minute. Am I being childish? Don't listen to the naysayers that will say it is not fair to use someone to make your H jealous. It is just dinner and maybe dancing. You are just too foxy to wait around for H. Think of it as GAL.
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
