I know that retrovaille would probably solve everything.

I suggested it once and he wasn't really interested. Never really said much either way and I was pretty much told by the peeps here to back off, lest he have too much pressure. (Which I agree.)

The lease house is having a showing (for sale) tonight and might be written up; who knows. The sellers showed it as a rental yesterday to two interested parties, and basically, if it goes as a rental, the winner will be whoever gets the application and deposits in first. *sigh*

We are still undecided what to do about the house at this second.

H heard me typing just now and asked who I was "talking" to. I tried to be evasive and finally just read Sara's post. He asked what retrouvaille meant. I just read bits and pieces off the website to him. He is re-stringing his guitar and being distracted right now. heh- he mixed up the two top strings.

Ooo...now he brought up the "nest" issue; I asked if we should leave things alone til january "Like sara said" and he said "Oh, is that he is talking about retrouvaille?"

Well, I better sign off for now.

I'll update later.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing