ILY's & ML...no fights..this is a strange S! Help!

[Gingersnap]

I could do that...this is just all so strange with him. Anytime I make a move towards anything regarding the S he says "don't be silly..it's not like that" or "this isn't like last time". Almost a denial that we are S even though we are? But secretive enough to separate out his bank account and doesn't want me to ask questions about the apartment. I asked tonight if he had a microwave that he could reheat some leftovers in and he said no in an annoyed tone. Then said "I'll just eat it when I'm here".

So do I need to force more of a true feeling of S on him or is that counter productive? Or should I say screw him and do what works for me.