do you have a guest room or the like that you could shift his stuff to? or maybe pull it all out to paint the closet/install an organizer/just do a good fall cleaning? nothing that feels permanent, but gives you the space. my case with h was easy. back in april he was in ct on business and I found info that he was still seeing ow. he had the balls to tell me that since I was mad at him, he was going to head to manhattan with a friend for the night instead of coming home. i told him when he got home, his stuff would be waiting for him on the porch. he made it home in record time, but not before I had it all in garbage bags on the porch. I swear I lost 5lbs hauling all his crap out of the closet...he has a lot of clothes. up and down the stairs. I was like wild woman on a mission.
even though he came back for a while, he never really did...he moved his stuff to the basement.
i worked for a small local company, so none you would know.
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