ILY's & ML...no fights..this is a strange S! Help!

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That's an excellent way to look at it, Morgan. And I think that's the direction I'm working in anyway. Just in case I want him back someday...play nice.

What do you all think about the closet thing? He never really moved out of the house. He just took some clothes and still goes in the bedroom to rummage through the closet and drawers for clothes. Should I insist he move it all out? Seems like I'm demanding more permanence. But he DOES have an apartment for goodness sakes....that's pretty darn permanent. I remember in the last separation he got all freaked when I packed up his things from the closet in a giant box. This was after 3 months. He came home within 2 weeks.

But I don't want him home now. Not until he's making huge moves to change. So should I do it anyway?

He did thank me tonight for everything I'm doing to hold us together. I wish I could have sent a roll eyes smiley over the phone to him.

Morgan what company did you work for as a recruiter? I worked with an advertising agency for 10 yrs. specializing in employment advertising and communications and I worked with recruiters from lots of national companies.