oh yeah, I am right there with you. and why don't you clean out his stuff? my bedroom has become my sanctuary. will be very weird, should be reconcile, to see his stuff in the closet again, for instance.
anyway, I used to be a recruiter many years ago. I used to have a boss who told every single person she sent out to interviews to make sure they asked for the job...they could decide later if it was a good fit, but if you don't get the offer, its not your choice. so I think I'm kind of working on that right now. I don't know half the time whether I even still want him, but I guess in a way I'm still working towards it until I know for sure I don't. I want it to be my choice, not his, if I can possibly help it.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
