IMHO, I think that unless there are D papers, H does not need to be bringing in any OW to the house. If he wants to go and see them, then that's his deal.
on the room. I don't see why you have to "prepare" him for the move. Did you tell him you were going to move out of the house? If that was the plan you guys made, then maybe telling him would be a respectful, but I'm thinking you did not.
Maybe when your moved in there, and he questions you or acts weird about it, act as if he would be pleased... saying you understand he does not want to be in this relationship and that things are uncomfortable so you will be using this room as your bedroom for now that way you both have your privacy.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
