Bruce hope you had a nice visit with your cousin. I know what you mean about those connections with your w.I feel them a alot with my H..He leaves but he always comes back to see the kids and reconnect with me..like I sense he wants to be sure we are ok.. so sometimes I think maybe they have to see us; and I agree with you, I believe many of us here could have great r with our Spouses if all were willing to work.. peace
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