Yes Morgan, no matter what you think might be on his phone, you are likely to be wrong. There are just too many possibilities - most of them will be benign, but if you are anything like me, you can read all sorts of sh1t into it and make grand stories up to torture yourself with. Let the phone go. Think of it as a normal landline...it is just a piece of technology that helps you make calls. By thinking of it like that it might help stop linking the phone to h as an 'accomplice' in his infidelity. The phone does not have a life of it's own. On its' own, the phone can't confirm or deny what you think he is thinking, it will only throw up more questions than it answers and you won't get straight answers from h.


CMC

Me: 34
Him: 36
M: 10yrs
T: 17yrs
D: 6yo
S: 29/01/2007
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