More complicated than I imagined...

[Michael Mc C]

That's a VERY good point. I have taken great care in what I actually send via email. I don't think I have ever sent the first draft.

I've discussed the present situation with a lot of friends and although I know they mean well, I am still partial to taking the high road and trying to be patient, loving and understanding.

That approach really gets me pulling my hair out sometimes - but I'd rather be bald and married...