Nothing to report really. I got papers back from former W"s lawyer and they contained fundamental errors (referencing incorrect law papagraph for example), so another round we go.
I attended "parenting" class - mandatory if you are a parent. Good class really. The presenters were qualified professionals and they were open.
Much is what you would expect on how to treat kids. But I will pass on a few good points:
Divorce WILL hurt the kids. I cannot believe my fW heard this and did not react to it (she already took the class).
We can minimize that hurt for our kids. Cooperation with the other parent is one key.
If the kids show ANY signs of distress, get them professional help.
Don't date until you are OVER x-spouse.
Blended families work ONLY IF both parenting styles are the same.
Other statistics for our class of 24 (given an average class:
5 are in deep depression. 5 experienced physical abuse. 12 need professional help to cope. Almost all are suffering from anger or anxiety. 8 will be remarried within 180 days.
Then the discussion leader asked who here is happy? I mean really happy that the divorce is going to happen soon?
Over 2/3 raised their hand. How very sad. What a state of affairs in our society today.
