You guys need better communication. You could solve a lot, if not all, your problems in one weekend at Retrouvaille. Check the website for dates and locations near you, http://www.helpourmarriage.com.
Stay put for now. You and he already have 2 places to live til January. There will still be plenty available next year if you need it.
Retrouvaille is not offered often in any location, but you might still be able to find a November weekend. Otherwise, it will be next year before the next ones.