Thanks, I greatly appreciat you guys checking in on me. mk: Thanks. I forgot about the re-writing thing. I remember that from the book, but you're right. I know what you mean about "being a catch". I THINK I'm OK. I've got 3 college degrees, a great militray job and a great civilian job. I'm a high school administrator when I'm not in uniform. I managed to interview and get 3 better kobs within 10 years. My big mistake was always looking for that next degree, Army school, promotion, new job....and not really paying enough attention to my W.s needs. It's that simple (or complex:))

Matilda: I will begin to work on that on my leave in April. I'm taking all of them to Disney World for a start! It will be great!