what will happen if you don't move and he doesn't come back ? will you end up being pushed rather than choosing when to jump? Will you only get to say "how high ?"
Excellent point. His lease is up in January. If I stay put, he could announce in January that *he* wants to come back home, so I need to find a place to move to. Yeah, I will be in perpetual limbo in the meantime because I will know that he is eventually returning; but I may have to leave.
Edited to add: Thank you Saffie! good points all around.
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Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
