I think this is also surreal. My H is also living with a house full of critters as this OW is a very young dog shampooer and vegan so my H has left his home of kids to take care of a bunch of other kids. His OW is 16 years younger and they room with some teenagers! I have no confirmation of this just rumours. Otherwise we assume he is still technicaly homeless and couch surfing. He lies about it all anyways. I just do not let him have any overnight visits with the children. Why can't you enforce that also? If your H is already cohabitating just stop all overnight visits. It may not be the law but it is not healthy for anyone to introduce a new partner for many months. My children will not meet the person who attacked their happiness. Ilet that be known when my H finally admitted his affair several months after it even bagan.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
