One of the hardest moments of this separation was explaining it to S11 and S8. We told them together, although she did most of the talking. The message was that mommy and daddy are having trouble getting along with each other and have both decided that it would be better for all if we separated. We dont know what will ultimately happen to our marriage, but we will always love you and make your well being our priority.

I have never said anything specific about what was going on, but they have seen me crying and know that I am not happy with the decision to separate.


Me-46;W-42
Together 23 yrs Married 16
S11 S8 S6
02/10/03 Her 1st affair
10/01/06 Sep Bomb
01/01/07 Sep Begins
03/09/07 Her 2nd affair

My Sitch