Long Year

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Did I write this post? It sure feels like it. Oh my dear Mom I know this is little consolation but your H is basically going to act like a person on drugs and there is little you can do to control a drug addict. You can focus on your kids and do what the TH said and keep you and your children from the pain of his affair. he is having an affair as we speak and that is completely wrong for the kids. He is in such a fog he cannot make apropriate choices. His OW has obviously been a person that is selfish or stupid or competitive or immoral. I am guessing she is not a gold digger. But there are five types of mistresses. I am so sorry but please protect yourself first. Read Divorce Remedy and it will keep you sane and clear minded. I am guessing you already have since you have been here since January. Your H and your Marriage is now a cliche like mine. H looks to see if the grass i greener, finds that the grass is not greener, but cannot move back home because H has no self respect, etc. That no repercussions comment, OMG!! They will stay in denial forever because if they faced the truth they could get suicidal. My dad has acted this way for 30 years and he is still in denial and compartmentalizes that his cheating had no effect on his parenting. Crazy.