Agreed. Why push anything on him in regards to R or Div talk? Also, it may instigate a R talk that you may actually have to have with the kids. That is an excrutiating moment, I hear. I never did it as the doctor said. I am still avoiding using the D word with my kids.
Your day sounds great. I would do a 180 from the days of pre separation if possible. Do what works and if it does not after a while try something new. What was communication like pre sep? If you are like most couples you asked about work and he clammed up. I have never met a couple that is any different. Let him pursue you, if not let him open up on his time.
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
