It has been a very long time since I have posted. Jan07 the H tells me he is moving out and wants a D. He also tells me that he will give us 90 days to figure things out (just needed space). All of our friends and family were shocked and figured he would be back. Well, he started dating OW 3 weeks after he moved out and has been living with her since June. I tried to rationalize it all and hit has been extremely hard. He has no job, going thru a divorce with 2 kids and this woman thinks he is the best thing. He went on to tell me that she is the greatest person in the work blah, blah, blah-I am sorry but I don't think a qualilty woman would get involved in the middle of this. The kids are the ones who are hurting the most-they love their dad but don't want to be around him and the OW. He constantly has her invovled with them etc. They are in counseling and so is dad. His counselor told him that he had no business being in a relationship at this time and that he needed to get his own place so he could work on things with his kids. H response-I am going to do what I am going to do. The have fun with dad but basically hate him for what he has done. We had issues before he left but nothing like this-he has impoded the family and the kids are suffering. The OW is 38, never been married and so not his type. He thinks this is the love of his life and they are going to grow old together. I guess I don't get how a man can just walk away and not think there will be any repercussions. Blows my mind... Susan
