Thanks, I agree with everything that has been written.
She was taken off-guard when I gave her all of the money - not much, about $300. I am laughing about it now in hindsight. So, because I took the wind out of her sails, she had to "brew up" another fight about money... hence the chase-down and accusation of early morning chatting...
Morgan, it's not easy. I just keep telling myself that it's just not worth the effort. I can invest my energy any way that I want, and there are better uses of my time, emotions and brain power than a fight with her.