Went to bed and woke up at 2:30. Thought about things for the next 2 hours. Can't figure out how to get around that one.
Yep. Yep. Yep. Its awful, the middle of the night.
I just caught up with your thread. Must be really hard to sit and listen to wife talk about OM, but if you think back, she woudn't even admit he existed to you until you opened up and hid your defenses. I think in your situation this is a good thing, as long as you can handle it.
I have relaxed and let H talk about OW in the past. He doesn't say too much, but I can only hope it'll keep him from lying even more to me about it.
I think you are doing well, however, try to be her friend AND detach at the same time. You can be interested, yet you be the one to stop the conversations, have somewhere to be. You are doing so well.
