Thanks, Hill. Hill, was your W. adamant about a D. before you left? I gather from some of you previous posts, it appears that your former W. was married before you as well? I can't believe the whole thing was your fault.

Did you feel that your deployment made you better able to withsatnd the pounding of a D.? As I lay in bed, all the memories of the kids and the family time flood through my head. I guess she doesn't view it the same way. Kills me. As I said, I correspond with a woman I work with. I will not cross the line into any flirting or inappropriate terrain, but it's good to keep the channel open. You never know how things will turn out.