You've gotten a lot of good advice here. My only thought to contribute is to maybe get out and do more w/ your W just 1 on 1. Even just rent a movie and watch a movie together after the kids go to bed (if there are kids, I haven't gone back & read your other threads).


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10