You did awesome. Let her allow herself to believe what she wants - she probably really doesn't think you are cheating, she probably just wants to add more drama.

I think you are really on a good track if you can continue to stay calm w/ her and react "as if" you could care less that she's acting like a dumba$$.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10