Yeah, I definitely would have liked to have seen the one w/ the guys who were cheating on their wives.
I kind of/sort of "started" to have an EA after H left w/ one of H's "friends" and I got a "bird's eye view" of how it feels and have a better understanding of my H and his affairs (pleural!!!!) Of course, before I get in trouble here, I nipped it in the bud very quickly.
There was this excitement, sexual tension, etc. that obviously is a great feeling. I felt like I was actually attractive to someone else, etc.
I know that it was a choice that H made. The first few he definitely felt were "justified" in that he felt he was being deprived at home and in our M. However, I know that if it ever happens again, he will KNOW what he's doing and know the consequences. I actually don't worry about that though. I've worked through wondering if he just CAN'T be faithful and I know he can. I know if we continue to work on our M and make sure we don't ever allow ourselves to get in "the rut" again, he won't have any reason to.
Last edited by RedHeadWife; 10/21/0712:03 PM.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
