I got there and he was okay friendly, then as the night progressed he got more drunk and beligerent. By the end, he was being a real a'hole and I told him so, in no uncertain terms. Early on (before he turned into a royal A$$) he goes "heh, You were funny with your nest thing and "fluffing" it out; now I know why women are called "birds" in England." So I laugh and say "so, you liked my story" and he pauses and says (in a quasi-condescending way) "yeah. that was a good story"
He was totally drunk and continued to drink. I told him to slow down (separate cars and all) and he said he would ride home with me. 30 minutes later (and at least one more drink) he announces that he is going to drive back to his house. I say "oh hell no, you are not. You're too wasted." We go back and forth.
Long story short, he abruptly says "See ya" and starts walking to the parking lot. I ask him what he's doing and he says "going home. bye." and just hops in his truck and starts it up and leaves.
I was so pissed on the way home, I decided getting the other house was without any shadow of a doubt the best thing to do.
I get home and I receive the following text "I'm safe.Love you" Me "that's good because I love you too" H "Huggs and kisses"
WTF? 30 minutes before that, he couldn't get out of there fast enough.
He's flipping crazy. He can be so cold and such a jerk. Oh well, I am glad he let me know that he was okay.
He can suck me in so fast, it's not even funny.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing