Originally Posted By: ediemarie
I will tell you that my H recently told me that he is thankful and appreciative of my devotion to him and to our M


I honestly believe this was the saving grace in my M as well. H told me one time that he may have reacted differently had I gotten angry, etc. constantly over the whole thing.

I think just supporting and loving him through the whole thing instead of kicking his A$$ to the curb, as I sometimes wanted to, was what brought him around finally. Because of my support, etc., he realized that I was still the person that he loved.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10