Most of them did not know that the guy was married. When they finally were told or found out, they were already "emotionally" involved.
The one lady that had an A said that when she told her H she was having the A, he actually finally "stepped up to the plate" and was willing to make the changes in himself & the M so that they are now happy, etc.
One woman said that she ended up feeling like it was a competition to be the "winner" and get the guy, but ended up she didn't anyway.
One woman actually was seeing him before and after he got married. I bet she wishes she had decided she was ready to get married before he married this other chick, however, now she's been "dating" this married man for 8 1/2 years!
I don't remember any of them actually saying anything about how they felt about being the one that could possibly be destroying a family, etc.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
