More complicated than I imagined...

[Michael Mc C]

Thanks Em. I was thinking that I would write a letter. Our discussions have either been verbal or through email. I want to get away from emails. Although they're convenient, they are terribly impersonal. Then again, with D13, D11 and S8, running around, at least an email can't be accidentally left on the counter...

A few things that I've been toying with are the issue with the bedroom, the expectation for going to NC for Thanksgiving as well as our annual vacation to NC around Memorial Day. These are things that I don't think she's really thought about - but I don't want to appear that I'm holding them out there like a carrot ("come back, look what you can have...")

But I want her to understand the reality of the situation. Maybe simply discussing the bedroom will be a catalyst for her to think about other things she expects (NC and more) that don't really make sense given her present frame of mind.

So... tonight. Just got back from sushi - it was good, but not great. It's a new place meant for a younger crowd, felt like the old guy at the party. Had a great time though. Missed her a little but mostly on the drive to my BIL's house and then again back to my house after dropping BIL and his GF off.