hey login, yes, deadlines are good to keep my sanity.
As far as affection, my H has such low self steem and other issues that i'm confident that when I show a bit of affection (it has taken me 2mths to come to this) he takes it at face value, he's the kind of person who's alway s wondering if I'm still mad at him for all that has happen. In my case, some small show of affetion is received rather well. Just have to go very slowly...
I"m glad you'll be with your W for a week! sending good vibes your way and I pray you have a good r talk and that you guys have a great time together
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.