Thanks everyone. This is NOT a work function. It is 4 guys from WORK but they are going out to some bars and then to one of the guys house. So her job can't do anything about it because it's not on work time or at the workplace. She left at 7:00PM so it is too late for my son and I to go anywhere. She looked and smelled so good when she left. I wanted to cry but held it together. I just will never understand what those 4 guys have that I don't have. I am worried that she will drink TOO MUCH and do something she wouldn't do if she was sober :-( She's not that kind of women but if those horny guys have too much to drink who knows. Plus she has NOT told anyone she is back home. They still think she is living on her own. And it felt like I got kicked in the gut when she told me today that she tells everyone she is NOT married. For christsakes we are only separated. In NC if you do anything with anyone while you are separated it is considered adultery and people can be sued for being with her but she does NOT wan to hear anything about that and she proudly says she can do what she wants. I'm just so depressed. I don't even know if she will be honest and tell me if anything happens tonight
