H*ll if I know! I don't have a clue as to what works and what doesn't. What we should do. I just know of some of the things that don't work or that we shouldn't do.

I only said these things to my H because I needed to. They were honest statements that came from my heart.

And part of me wonders if I can just talk to H about OW. He wont have to "admit" to her. That getting her out in the open will end the excitement, the secrets, maybe even the R.

Last edited by theotherhalf; 10/20/07 10:01 PM.
M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!