I'll post more later, but I've been "reliving" my whole D sitch lately too. It seems nice for them to just go on "as if" nothing ever happened and we are/were the ones to work so hard to keep it all together and still have the recurring "nightmares" of what happened.

I'm sticking around too in piecing, as I don't ever want to forget the lessons I've learned, although it is kind of difficult at times b/c, like you said, I don't want to step on any toes by being so incredibly happy that my M got a second chance as others are still going through what I went through.

I think we have a fine line to walk as far as "clinging to the past," as we don't want to continually dwell, but also don't want to ever get ourselves in the rut we were in which led to the whole nightmare to begin with.

I think we have a RIGHT to be a bit bitter at times \:\)

Revenge, nah, but at times I think we wish they had even the slightest idea of the feelings we had to go through during the whole D sitch. It was entirely different for them.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10