It's reassuring to get support like this. Why does our instinct tell us to pursue. I will not let one "Miss you" text move me from my stand. Honestly, she probably texted the same message to OM a minute later. I deserve to be treated better than this. I dont want a divorce, but I will not be thought of as a lap dog either. She likes having a lap dog at her beck and call, but I'm sure that she would want a stronger man for a life partner. I can be that stronger man. That does not mean I will not be kind and supportive, but I will not jump when she snaps her fingers....
Me-46;W-42 Together 23 yrs Married 16 S11 S8 S6 02/10/03 Her 1st affair 10/01/06 Sep Bomb 01/01/07 Sep Begins 03/09/07 Her 2nd affair
