Also - if you feel you're being treated like a chequebook it may be time to draw a line ... don't be nasty about it, but realistic ... kind of like "sorry, W, i'd like to give you money to go out and see your friends but I've had a big car repair bill this month so there isn't any spare cash". or draw up separate accounts ... as long as you don't do it to try and control her or for any kind of revenge motive then it's not bad DB in my opinion.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.