The fantasy does not include me being in this house.

I guess that is my answer. I am unable to visualize staying here with all of his stuff and showing my independence. I mean, seriously, could I really bring a date back here? Would he ever believe I would bring a date back here? I don't think so. I think that as long as he sees me amongst his stuff, I will just be a 'thing' waiting for his return.

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing