As I mentioned in my reply to your post to my thread our situations are really similar. Giving them space and time to work through their issues is key. Acting "as-if" and GAL is also important. I really beleive they are confused and need time to work through their thoughts. It's painful and I truly wish you the best!
Me-46 Her-47 S-17 S-13 Married-20 year Bomb-5/14/07 DBing-Since July 07